"The road to enlightenment is long and difficult, and you should try not to forget snacks and magazines."
Anne Lamott, Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith

Thursday, August 21, 2025

Grace

 

Grace

 

pool newly made from morning rain,

murky brown and burnt umber

it halts my onward march

I stop to consider the way round

 

brush and bush lay right

hectic stream lays left

both lead somewhere

playing for time to make my choice

 

I crouch before it

wondering if I dipped

fingers into its stillness

would I be rebaptized

 

into the ancient creation

layer upon layer of life

brewing, bubbling in this

sudden fen

 

God's breath still moves

across the waters

pulling from chaos

this sacred pause

All the Tiny Deaths

 

All the tiny deaths

A soul suffers in a day.

From silence when you want to speak,

Speaking and being unheard.

All the tiny deaths

That come from hiding who you are

And being what you’re not

The soul withers and shrinks

Just a little bit more

With each bitten tongue,

Clenched fist,

Restrained smile

The truth might set it free

But honesty takes courage

And courage comes from truth

And the truth cannot be told

So the soul keeps dying

All the tiny deaths

But without death’s release

So the soul just keeps on trying

Clinging to hope and life and

Waiting for resurrection

If it should ever come.

Until then it endures

All the tiny deaths.

Thursday, May 2, 2024

what to do when you're burned out

 

you’ll want to eat your feelings

with chocolate chips and mini marshmallows

and a chaser of crunchy peanut butter

that’s okay but don’t forget to treat yourself

to oreos or fudge stripes too

commit small acts of defiance like

pressing all the try me buttons on toys in Walmart

or refuse to concede to society’s demands for

capital letters or punctuation

you’re burned out not grammar’s bitch

it’s okay to feel old, like really old

like thirty or forty or maybe seventy

years older than you actually are

burn out does not respect age but it does age you

comfort tv helps

so do naps

 your mind can be turned off  

when the partridge family is turned on

just remember you are burned out

because life is hard and sometimes feels like a slog

through deep sucking mud

yet maybe there’s dry land ahead

maybe the color green blooms just beyond

your line of vision

and lavender and roses grow abundantly

thickening the air with their perfume

Thursday, February 10, 2022

Get In Line

 

 Are you mad at me?

Get in line.

Are you looking for someone to blame,

a slow-moving target,

a convenient scapegoat?

Get in line.

Are you looking for me to take

your side, go to battle

in this pathetic war that’s been declared?

Find someone else

willing to lose their head.

It has become clear  

that I am a pawn in your

Childish

Petty

Junior High

Game.

But I refuse to play.

I’m tired.

Worn to the bone.

I can’t do this anymore.

I

CANNOT

DO

THIS

ANYMORE.

Junior High was

a long time ago.

Drama was just a hobby.

I’m done.

Does that make you mad?

Get in line.

 

Thursday, August 19, 2021

Burned

  I am

singed, charred, scorched.

Anger, blame, and shame

have reduced me to ash.

The former form of me,

body and mind,

spirit and soul,

is now only outline

filled in with smoke.

Touch me,

I am little more than

swirling haze.  

Breathe on me,

I blow away.

Nothing left but

smoldering embers

of memory

and misunderstanding

Thursday, February 25, 2021

Dear God

  

Take this stole

from my neck,

this robe

off my back.

You don’t scare me

with your salt.

I will look back.

 

Pull this cross

from my chest,

yank this Bible

outta my hand.

I’m over it, God.

You take them

to that promised land

 

Block me from

the pulpit,

keep me from

the font.

My well is dried up,

living water’s all gone.

My soul wastes from want.

 

In case you

haven’t noticed,

I’m tired and I’m worn.

Exhausted from the trying,

the worry and the strain.

My prayers return unanswered,

so, yes, I will complain.

 

The good news

feels damn lousy,

your kingdom

just won’t come.

Hope has left

the building,

the parts outdo the sum.

 

This poem is for

the clergy,

the prophets and

the priests.

Feed us like

you promised,

or make this calling cease.

 

The sheep have

bruised the shepherd,

the hens embraced

the fox.

It’s lonely where

I’m standing,

the one outside the box.

 

Friday, July 27, 2018

Helpless


On your first day of school
we drove by the building because
I ached to see that brick
still stood solidly on brick.

You, pigtails bobbing, walked
with other little ones,
looking for nature in the playground.
Seeing our car, you pointed and waved.
So much for furtive parenting.

What would have I done that day
if something had been wrong?
Would I have thrown myself across
your small frame, protecting, sheltering?
Of course.

Baby experts warn that what
wears down a parent is the
exhaustion, that bone weary
tiredness that never dissipates even
when your little one sleeps all night.

But I disagree. What really crushes
a parent’s heart is the helplessness;
it is all that you cannot fix
or mend
or kiss away.

What would I have done when
you walked away, so scared and alone?
Would I have borne your burden,
carried your pain?
Of course.

But I am helpless to do what I wish I could.
All I can do is watch and wait and love.
Mary must have keened with grief
watching her son die.
Any mother would.

Maybe it’s blasphemy, but
I imagine God felt that too.
Helpless with agony as his child
bore such pain.

It is comfort to believe
that God and I feel the same.
Helpless.